If a woman who knows her self-worth, she’ll never do these 14 things

As women, we navigate a world filled with societal expectations, external judgments, and self-doubt. 

In the midst of it all, knowing our self-worth helps us through the ups and downs of life. 

Understanding and embracing our value is a powerful journey that empowers us to live on our own terms.

It’s not always easy, though. 

Trust me; I’ve struggled with it for years. 

One thing I’ve learned along the way is that there are some things that women who know their self-worth don’t do. 

If you’re ready to join me and unlock our full potential, let’s dive in and explore 14 things a confident woman won’t do.

1) Settle for less than what she deserves

Knowing your worth means not settling for anything less than you deserve. 

And you deserve the best out of life! 

Know your value, and don’t settle for anything — a romantic partner, job, or even a dress that doesn’t fit quite right — less than you deserve.  

Aim high, and make sure you avoid the next thing a woman who knows her worth won’t do.

2) Prioritize others’ needs above her own

Repeat after me: 

“My needs are just as important as anyone else’s needs.”

Now, let that sink in. 

Women with high self-worth don’t put themselves on the back burner to ensure other people’s (excluding her children) needs are met. They refuse to sacrifice their health or happiness to please someone else.

As someone who struggles with self-worth, I can tell you first-hand that this is tough. I’m a people pleaser, so there’s always a nagging feeling that putting myself first is, well, selfish. 

If you’re fighting the same battle, remind yourself that you are only responsible for meeting your needs. And that those needs are just as valid and important as anyone else’s. 

3) Ignore relationship red flags

Ah, love! It’s an amazing feeling, and it’s easy to overlook bad behavior in those first few magical weeks and months of a new relationship. 

But a woman who knows her self-worth won’t miss the warning signs.

In the past, I’ve ignored red flags.

Hell, I pretty much married a walking red flag.

But no more!

When you know your self-worth, you immediately identify toxic people and problematic behavior and refuse to accept anything less than what you deserve from a romantic partner. 

Want to know what else a confident woman will never do?

4) Avoid setting boundaries

High self-worth and personal boundaries go hand in hand.

When you know your value, you won’t let anyone disrespect or take advantage of you. You know how you deserve to be treated and refuse to be pushed or guilted into doing things you don’t want to do. 

Setting healthy boundaries is tricky, and enforcing them is often even harder. 

But despite the difficulty, confident women don’t put up with anyone crossing their boundaries. 

5) Dim her sparkle to make others comfortable

In the past, I’ve toned down my accomplishments and skills to avoid “bragging” or making someone uncomfortable. 

But embracing my self-worth has taught me that I have every right to be proud of my achievements. 

I’ll shine brightly, inspire others, and surround myself with people who celebrate my success rather than feeling threatened by it.

You deserve to do the same! You’re a total badass. Don’t dull your sparkle just because someone else can’t handle it.

And that brings me to something else a confident woman doesn’t do: 

6) Compare herself to others

Comparison really is the thief of joy. 

When you’re confident, you don’t compare yourself to others.

You recognize that we are all on different paths and focus on your journey without worrying about whether someone else is doing better. 

In fact: 

Confident women celebrate others’ successes without feeling inadequate. They know they are where they’re supposed to be on their own journey and don’t feel inferior or get caught up in jealousy. 

7) Sacrifice her dreams for someone else’s

I learned the hard way that sacrificing my dreams for someone else’s never leads to lasting happiness. 

A woman who values her self-worth knows her dreams are just as important as anyone else’s. She supports others as they pursue their dreams, but she doesn’t do it by giving up on her own.

And it doesn’t stop there! 

8) Give up on self-improvement

Embracing self-worth is a journey that doesn’t end with a sudden realization. You don’t simply wake up one day knowing your value. Loving yourself is hard, and continuous self-improvement is the only way you’ll get there. 

Women with high self-worth never give up on improving themselves. 

Whether it’s acquiring new skills, seeking therapy, or learning from mistakes, they always work toward being the best version of being themself. 

9) Define her worth based on her appearance

Our society puts way too much emphasis on appearance, leading many of us to tie our self-worth to how we look.

Obviously, we know that looks aren’t everything. But getting to a point where you truly believe your appearance doesn’t impact your value is hard.

I’ve been there, so I get it.

I’m slowly learning to accept and appreciate my body instead of worrying about whether I fit conventional beauty standards. 

If you have a hard time believing in your self-worth when you look in the mirror, flip the script. Thank your body for all the amazing things it does for you. It takes time, but expressing gratitude will eventually teach you to honor your body and let go of the idea that your physical appearance impacts your self-worth.

In addition to learning not to base your worth on your appearance, accepting your body can improve mental health. 

10) Neglect her mental and emotional health

Confident women know that maintaining their mental and emotional health is important. 

They don’t neglect self-care or avoid seeking help when they need it. 

And they certainly don’t let mental health challenges define their worth. 

While I’m still not where I’d like to be in terms of self-worth, taking charge of my mental health has helped a lot. I know my feelings are valid and that I deserve appropriate treatment to overcome them. 

I’m no longer ashamed of my struggles or feel they devalue me. 

Instead, I prioritize myself and recognize that therapy and medications are important parts of self-care.

Speaking of emotional well-being, let’s talk about self-expression:

11) Apologize for expressing her feelings

If a woman knows her self-worth, she won’t apologize for expressing her emotions — even the unpleasant ones. 

She knows her feelings are valid and that she has the right to express them.

Plus, she knows others’ reactions to her feelings aren’t her problem. 

If someone gets upset with you for expressing yourself, that’s a them problem! 

Of course, that also means no one else is responsible for your feelings… 

12) Rely on others for happiness

Happiness is an inside job.

If you want to live the life you deserve, only you can make that happen. 

Women who know their self-worth take charge of their happiness instead of relying on others. They find their own joy and refuse to let anything stand in their way.

13) Let fear hold her back

Fear used to paralyze me, preventing me from taking risks and pursuing my dreams. 

Not anymore! 

A woman who knows her self-worth acknowledges her fears but refuses to let them control her life. 

Once you stop letting fear hold you back, you won’t do the last thing on this list.

14) Silence herself

A woman who knows her value speaks confidently and authentically. 

She uses her voice to advocate for herself and others, and she stands up for what she believes in. 

She’s not afraid to say what she thinks because she knows her thoughts and opinions are just as valid as anyone else’s.

Closing Thoughts

Discovering your self-worth is a journey of empowerment and self-discovery that holds the key to unlocking your full potential. 

When you recognize your worth, you become a beacon of strength, resilience, and confidence, inspiring others to do the same. Through this transformative process, you’ll shed the burdens of self-doubt and societal expectations, allowing your authentic self to shine brightly. 

As you continue on this empowering journey, embrace the incredible woman you are and step into the world with unwavering self-assurance. Know that you deserve all the love, success, and happiness life has to offer. 

Go forth with your head held high and your heart full of self-love. You’re an amazing woman, and you’ve got this!