If you do these 13 things for others, you’re a genuinely good person

by Clifton Kopp | December 12, 2023, 4:27 pm

Hey there, friend! Have you ever wondered what it takes to be a genuinely good person? 

Well, let me tell you, it’s not about grand gestures or flashy displays of kindness. 

Being a truly good person is all about the little things, the subtle acts of kindness that make someone’s day a bit brighter. 

So, buckle up, because we’re about to dive into the thirteen things that define a heartwarmingly good person.

1) Practicing empathy: Walk a mile in their shoes

Ever been stuck in a sticky situation, feeling like the world’s against you? 

We’ve all been there.

A genuinely good person takes a moment to step into someone else’s shoes. 

It’s not about having all the answers or solving their problems but lending an empathetic ear and showing that you care.

A while back, my friend was going through a rough patch. 

Instead of bombarding her with advice, I simply sat down and listened. No judgment, no lectures—just a friend being there. 

Turns out, sometimes, that’s all it takes.

2) A genuine smile that lights up the room

You know that warm feeling you get when someone smiles at you for no reason? It’s like a ray of sunshine breaking through the clouds. 

I remember this one time when I was having a rough day, and a stranger flashed me the most genuine smile.

 It was like they understood the weight I was carrying. 

It’s amazing how a simple smile can make you feel seen and valued.

3) The power of a listening ear

Being a good person isn’t just about talking; it’s about listening

We all need someone who genuinely hears us out. My buddy has this incredible talent for listening. 

I can ramble on about the smallest details of my day, and he’s right there, soaking it all in. 

It’s like having a personal cheerleader who’s genuinely interested in your life.

And let me tell you, it feels fantastic.

4) Acts of unexpected kindness

Ever had someone pay for your coffee in the drive-thru just because? 

It happened to me once, and it was such a heartwarming surprise. 

These random acts of kindness create a ripple effect of positivity. 

I try to pay it forward whenever I can – whether it’s buying a stranger’s meal or leaving a sweet note for a colleague. 

It’s like being part of this secret society of goodness.

5) Supporting dreams, no matter how big or small

We all have dreams, right? A good person is someone who not only dreams big themselves but also cheers you on in your pursuits. 

I remember when I doubted myself about starting my gaming shop? My best friend pushed me to take that leap of faith. 

Having someone in your corner, believing in your dreams, is like having a personal cheering section. 

It’s powerful stuff.

6) Apologizing and forgiving freely

Mistakes happen – we’re only human. A genuinely good person isn’t afraid to admit when they’re wrong

I remember this one time when I messed up big time. I owned it, apologized sincerely, and you know what? 

The forgiveness that followed was like a balm for both of us. 

It’s a humbling experience that strengthens relationships and shows true character.

7) Being there in tough times

Life isn’t always sunshine and rainbows. We all face storms. 

A good person is the one who stands by you when the rain is pouring down. 

When I lost my job last year, I got support from my buddies. 

They helped me navigate through the uncertainty. It’s in those tough moments that you discover the true gems in your life.

8) Celebrating others’ success

You know what makes a person genuinely good? Being genuinely happy for others when they succeed. 

Jealousy has no place in the heart of a good person. 

When your friend gets that promotion, or your sister graduates, their joy becomes your joy. 

It’s a beautiful cycle of happiness that makes life richer.

9) Roll up your sleeves and help out

Life’s a rollercoaster, and sometimes it throws a loop-de-loop that leaves us hanging. 

Offering a helping hand can be the difference between a wild ride and a smooth one. 

Last summer, my neighbor was moving into a new place, and the chaos of packing boxes was driving them nuts. 

So, I grabbed a roll of packing tape and joined the adventure. 

It wasn’t just about boxes; 

It was about being there when it counted, turning a daunting task into a team effort and sharing a few laughs along the way.

10) Sprinkle a dash of gratitude

Gratitude – it’s like a secret ingredient that can turn an ordinary day into something extraordinary. 

Take a moment to express your thanks, not just in passing but with intention. 

A few months back, a colleague of mine saved my bacon at work.

 Instead of a generic “thanks,” I wrote a heartfelt note, expressing my gratitude for their time and effort. 

The smile on their face when they read it was worth more than any project deadline.

11) Pass on the knowledge torch

We’re all experts at something, whether it’s fixing a leaky faucet or mastering the art of the perfect pancake flip. 

Share your knowledge! 

I’ll never forget the time my tech-savvy friend patiently taught me the ins and outs of my new smartphone. 

Their willingness to share their know-how not only saved me from countless tech-related headaches but also sparked a new interest in learning and helping others along the way.

12) Honesty: The glue that bonds goodness

Imagine a world where honesty reigns supreme.

A genuinely good person is honest not just with others but with themselves. 

It’s about owning up to mistakes, sharing your truth, and fostering an environment of trust.

I’ll confess—I once goofed up at work and was tempted to sweep it under the rug. 

Instead, I owned my mistake, apologized, and worked towards making it right. 

The result? A stronger bond with my colleagues, built on the foundation of honesty.

13) Time: The currency of goodness

In our fast-paced world, time is a precious commodity

I never come late when I have an appointment with someone

A genuinely good person understands the value of time, not just for themselves but for others too. 

It’s about making time for friends, family, and even strangers when they need it the most.

Remember that time a friend dropped everything to help you move? Or when someone took a moment to explain something you didn’t understand? 

Those are the little pockets of time that define goodness in action.

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