13 signs you’re in a relationship with a genuinely good guy

We’ve all had our fair share of relationships – the good, the bad, and the downright confusing. 

But when you meet someone special, someone who makes your heart beat and who always seems to say the right thing, you can’t help but wonder: Is he genuinely as good as he seems?

Deciphering the complexity of human behavior can be a difficult task, and it can leave you questioning your judgment. 

Do his actions mirror his intentions? Is this beautiful connection built to last?

Well, I’m here to help you demystify these questions. 

In this article, we’re going to explore 13 signs that indicate you’re in a relationship with a genuinely good guy. 

Buckle up, let’s dive right in.

1) He respects you

Respect is the foundation of any healthy relationship. 

If you’re with a genuinely good guy, he will show you respect in every interaction. 

I’ve often found that respect manifests in several ways:

• He listens to you
• He values your opinions
• He never dismisses your feelings or thoughts 

Let me ask: 

Does he ever make you feel inferior or less than?

If he doesn’t and instead he celebrates your individuality and admires your strengths and abilities you might have a keeper. 

Chances are that in fact, he is your biggest cheerleader, always there to lift you up and help you see your true worth.

2) He’s consistent

Consistency might not be the first thing you think of when picturing a good guy, but it’s an essential trait. 

I’m sure you’ve met someone so unpredictable that you never know what mood they’re going to be in! 

A good man won’t be one way one day and another the next. 

Usually, his feelings, actions, and behaviors remain steady. They have a strong foundation and nothing other than their own realization can change their minds. 

I know what you’re thinking: 

Everyone has an off day or some mood swings. But these don’t define him. 

His consciousness runs so deep that he doesn’t make promises he can’t keep and is always true to his word. 

In essence, it’s his way of showing that whenever you need him, he’ll be there. 

3) He’s open and honest

Despite the fact that showing vulnerability is sometimes seen as a weakness, good guys aren’t afraid to be vulnerable, admitting when they’ve made a mistake or when something is bothering them.

We can agree that trust and honesty walk together. When one is broken, the other stumbles. 

If your guy is good, he will be consistently honest. He’ll be open with you about his thoughts, feelings, and experiences. 

You’ll never have to second-guess or read between the lines, which can bring a great sense of security to your relationship.

Now, that sounds reassuring, doesn’t it? 

4) He supports your ambitions

I’ve often noticed that a good man is not intimidated by a partner’s success or ambitions. Instead, he supports and encourages your goals and dreams. 

He also respects your individuality and understands that your personal ambitions don’t detract from your relationship, so he tries to help you in anything he can!

The truth is he believes in you, even when you may not believe in yourself. Seeing your success doesn’t threaten him; instead, it makes him proud. 

If his first words after hearing about your accomplishments are, ‘Yes! I knew you could do it!’, then you know you’re in a relationship with a genuinely good guy.

5) He’s kind and empathetic

Kindness is a simple but powerful sign of a good guy. 

He shows empathy and tries to understand other people’s experiences and feelings. 

He treats everyone with respect and decency, regardless of their status or relationship with him. 

Hard to believe? Well, don’t get excited too soon… 

There’s a downside – if you live with a guy like this, you have probably experienced him being pulled away by different people, even if they’re strangers.

He doesn’t mean to neglect you, but when there’s somebody in need, his empathetic nature is hard to stop. 

In other words, this kindness extends to his interactions with everyone, be it strangers, colleagues, friends, and family members. 

6) He communicates openly

Communication is key in his book. 

This is because as a good-natured man, he’s probably observed the constant failures around him that are simply due to poor communication. 

So here’s the thing: 

He’s always ready to sit down, listen, and discuss things with maturity and openness.

He’s not afraid to express his feelings, and he values clear, honest dialogue over petty fights or silent treatments. 

Misunderstandings and disagreements are just part of life, but it’s how you address them that truly matters.

Can you spot this sign in your man?  

7) He makes time for you

Let’s get to the facts: You’re a priority to him. 

He doesn’t just say you’re important to him; he shows it through his actions.

No matter how busy he may be, a genuinely good guy will always make time for you. You’ll notice this when he includes you in his plans and loves spending time with you.

He knows that a relationship needs nurturing and shared experiences to flourish. 

In essence, it’s about creating memories together! 

8) He appreciates you

If he never takes you for granted, rest assured you’re with a genuinely good guy. 

At times, appreciation can be overlooked. So pay attention to the little things. The smile when you bring him a coffee, the way he looks at you for no reason other than he appreciates you being in his life.

He expresses gratitude for who you are and what you do. The daily routine doesn’t make him forget the things you bring into the relationship and the support you give him. 

It could be just the way you make him laugh, your support on his rough days, your cooking, or even the way you tie your hair – he notices it all and he’s grateful for you.

And remember, he doesn’t do it out of politeness, it comes from genuine appreciation. 

9) He is patient

Does your man get wound up when you ask him how to connect the TV to your phone for the 10th time?

Patience is an essential trait of a good man. 

He doesn’t rush you into decisions and gives you space to grow at your own pace. 

He’s not quick to judge or condemn because he knows that people make mistakes, including himself. 

If anything, he appreciates when someone is patient with him, and he tries to reciprocate that patience. 

If you are wondering how patient your man is, pay attention next time he’s around children. 

These cute, curious creatures can beat anyone through endless interrogation. If he’s good, he’ll probably keep them entertained with his unbeatable patience. 

10) He stands by you

When you’re in a relationship, you usually expect your partner to stand by you. 

He’s always there to help you when you need him. 

But here’s the thing: 

A good man is not only there for the good times but also stands by you during the rough patches. 

He is supportive and reassuring, giving you strength when you’re feeling down. 

Do you feel that no matter where he is, or what he’s doing, he always shows up for you? 

11) He respects your boundaries

Are you looking for a critical sign of goodness? 

Try this, set up a personal boundary. 

This could be:

• Personal space
• Alone time
• An activity to perform alone

The result will easily decide whether your man is good or not.

What should you be looking for? 

Well, a genuinely good guy understands and respects your boundaries so he’ll never force you to do something you’re uncomfortable with. Or stop you from doing something you need or want. 

12) He makes you feel safe

Don’t get me wrong, I know you’re a strong woman. 

But feeling safe and secure is a vital part of any relationship.

However, it’s not just about being physically safe, knowing that he would never threaten or harm you. 

The ability to express your thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment is also important to feel safe. 

13) He works on himself

Lastly, a genuinely good guy is always looking for ways to improve and grow. 

There’s a popular quote that says: “Good, better, best. Never let it rest. Until your good is better and your better is best.”

Can you see a resemblance with your man? 

Is he continuously analyzing himself, acknowledging his flaws, and actively working on becoming a better person?

If you’ve heard him claim that his commitment to being the best man he can be is firm, you might not have to look further.

The truth is, he takes responsibility for his actions and understands that only by improving and growing he can achieve this goal. 

I hope this article helps you recognize the signs of a genuinely good man. 

Remember, everyone has their off days and nobody is perfect. However, a genuinely good guy will consistently exhibit these traits.

But you need to be alert, and compare how his words match his actions!

Because you deserve nothing less than a partner who respects, loves, and values you for who you truly are. 

Keep these signs in mind and trust your instincts.