4 zodiac signs who often feel unappreciated and undervalued in relationships

Ever felt like you’re pouring out your heart and soul into a relationship, only to feel unacknowledged or taken for granted? 

Well, you’re not alone. I’ve been there, felt that, and trust me, it’s a terrible place to be. 

While it might seem like a stretch for some, astrology can offer insights that are surprisingly relatable. For ages, people have turned to the zodiac for answers about love and compatibility. 

Some signs, it seems, often feel like they’re in the shadows, not getting the appreciation they deserve. Could your sign be one of them? Let’s dive in and explore.

Let’s dive into which ones they are.

1) Cancer (June 21 – July 22)

Cancers are the nurturers of the zodiac. Their intuitive nature and deep emotional well mean that they’re often attuned to the needs and feelings of those they love. 

I’ve got a few Cancer friends, and it’s amazing how much love and care they pour into their relationships.

Yet, ironically, this very gift can be their downfall. Because they’re so giving and understanding, their partners might take them for granted. 

And so, Cancers often end up feeling like they give more than they get. 

Their silent wish?

To be seen, to be valued, and to have their enormous emotional efforts recognized. 

If you’re a Cancer, remember that you deserve a love that acknowledges and celebrates you.

2) Virgo (August 23 – September 22)

Diligent, meticulous, and always looking out for others – that describes Virgos to a T. It’s like they have this internal checklist, ensuring everything is perfect. 

However, this tendency to be overly attentive can often make them feel like their efforts go unnoticed. 

In relationships, for example, Virgos tend to do many behind-the-scenes things that make their partners’ lives easier and more organized. Yet, these silent acts of service can often be overlooked.

3) Libra (September 23 – October 22)

Libras are all about balance and harmony.

I am one, and I admit that I’ll go to great lengths to maintain peace in my relationships. Oftentimes to the point of sidelining my own needs and desires. 

Don’t get me wrong, I do like accommodating others and keeping the peace. But I also can’t deny that sometimes I feel undervalued. Sometimes I wish that the folks around me would stop and consider my needs for a change. 

Plus, balance is so important for us Libras. Thus, when the give-and-take exchange isn’t balanced, it can feel draining for us.

4) Pisces (February 19 – March 20)

Pisceans, with their dreamy disposition and immense empathy, are truly magical beings. They have this uncanny ability to feel what others are going through deeply. 

I’ve often sought comfort from my Piscean friends during tough times, and they never disappoint.

However, this empathetic nature can sometimes work against them in relationships. They give, give, and give some more, often merging with their partner’s emotions and desires. 

This can lead to them feeling lost or forgotten as they rarely prioritize themselves. 

If you’re a Piscean, remember that while it’s beautiful to be so in tune with others, it’s equally essential to maintain your sense of self and ensure you’re valued for the unique individual you are.

What to do

It’s easy to point out how our zodiac sign might predispose us to feeling a certain way, but the true challenge lies in how we navigate these feelings. 

If you find yourself on the list above, here are some tips on how to achieve balance in your relationships: 

Reflection is key

It’s important to occasionally hit the pause button and reflect on our relationships. Why do we feel unappreciated? Is it due to our actions, or is it because of an external factor, maybe our partner’s own struggles? 

I’ve often found solace in journaling my feelings. Writing down what bothers me, what I appreciate, and what I yearn for helps create clarity. 

If you’re feeling undervalued, take a moment to write down your feelings and understand their origin. This introspection can be a game-changer.

Communicate your feelings

Having realized that you might feel undervalued, don’t hold your feelings in. It’s important to communicate these feelings with your partner. 

After all, relationships thrive on open communication. I’ve had my fair share of misunderstandings, and believe me, sitting down and discussing your feelings can make a world of difference. 

You don’t want to come across like you’re blaming your partner, but you do need to make them aware of your emotional state. 

Seek balance

Every relationship needs balance – a balance between giving and taking, understanding and being understood, valuing, and being valued. 

If you’re constantly on the giving end, it might be time to evaluate and recalibrate. 

In my experience, setting boundaries and ensuring there’s a give-and-take in a relationship can alleviate feelings of being unappreciated.

Seek external support

Sometimes, we might be too deep in the woods to see the way out. During such times, seeking external support – be it from friends, family, or professional counseling – can be immensely beneficial. 

Talking to someone outside the relationship often provides a fresh perspective. I’ve leaned on my friends countless times to get an objective view of my relationship dynamics.

Value yourself

I can’t stress this enough – at the heart of it all, remember to value yourself. Your feelings, your efforts, and your love are invaluable. 

Whether or not others recognize it, it’s imperative to acknowledge your worth internally. 

I’ve realized that when I value myself, the world around me starts to reflect that same appreciation. And that has given me even more confidence to advocate for my own needs. 

So, no matter your zodiac sign or your relationship status, start with self-love and watch how everything else falls into place.

Final words

Feeling appreciated and valued is a universal need. It’s not just limited to these four signs; everyone wants their efforts to be recognized and their love reciprocated. 

But if you’re one of these zodiac signs and often feel unappreciated, remember that you’re not alone. And that it’s okay to ask for the acknowledgment you rightfully deserve. 

I’ve learned that lesson, and I hope you do too. Because ultimately, no matter what the stars say, the power to shape our destiny and relationships lies in our hands.