People who are extremely kind but have no close friends may not be socially inept — they’re operating with a version of kindness that prioritizes other people’s comfort so completely that it rarely creates the vulnerability required for actual friendship

You probably know someone like this. They are the person everyone describes as "so nice." They remember your birthday. They ask about your kids. They never make a conversation about themselves. They are warm, generous, and unfailingly pleasant to be around. And yet, when you think about it, you ...Read More





